A New Perspective on Life

Randall Park, the 51-year-old actor known for his roles in various television series and films, recently opened up about the profound influence his daughter Ruby has had on his life. Park describes his 12-year-old daughter, who is on the autism spectrum, as his primary source of joy and inspiration.

“It completely changed my perspective and only changed in the best way,” Randall remarked about being Ruby’s father. He explained how prior to her birth, his outlook was more self-centered, but now his life revolves around her, stating, “I’m obsessed with her.”

The Joys and Challenges of Parenting

Randall describes Ruby as an energetic child who loves to “sing and laugh” and enjoys running around the house. However, he acknowledges that she faces sensory difficulties and has limited language skills. Following Ruby’s diagnosis, Park and his wife, Jae Suh Park, were initially concerned about how to support her effectively in a world that can be challenging.

As time has passed, Park has shifted his mindset. His involvement with KultureCity, an organization focused on promoting acceptance and inclusion for those with invisible disabilities, has guided his understanding. “I want Ruby to accept herself and live in a world that is more caring and inclusive,” he shared.

Creative Connections

Engaging in creative activities such as baking and painting, Park emphasizes the happiness Ruby derives from her art. “She’s very obsessed with art and crafts,” he explains, noting that she has a dedicated space in their home for her supplies. Art serves as a therapeutic outlet for Ruby, reminiscent of how Park utilized art for his own emotional well-being during his childhood.

“She sees the world differently than I did as a child, so I think it’s therapeutic for Ruby,” he elaborated, highlighting the unique way she interacts with her creativity.

Words of Wisdom for Parents

Randall Park emphasizes that parenting children on the autism spectrum can vary greatly, as it is a broad spectrum. He encourages parents to embrace imperfection in their journeys. “You’re not perfect,” he stated. “That’s fine. As long as you really love your child, you do your best and you respect your child.”

A Personal Transformation

Reflecting on a deeper personal transformation, Park revealed that the loss of his father to cancer last year prompted a change in his lifestyle. To ensure he can be there for Ruby for as long as possible, he adopted a healthier lifestyle and completed his first marathon in New York City this past November—a goal he had not previously considered in his 50s. “That was a spark for me,” he affirmed, noting how running has become a new focus in his life.

Looking Ahead

Randall Park’s current projects include streaming in “Residence” on Netflix, with his latest series “Watson” set to air on CBS. He continues to be an advocate for autism awareness and inclusion while sharing the joys and challenges of parenting Ruby.