Music producer Benny Blanco and pop star Selena Gomez are embracing a thoughtful and personalized approach to their upcoming wedding, focusing on family connections and cultural traditions. During a recent appearance on Australia’s Today show, Blanco clarified that while the couple is excited about their future together, they have not yet set a wedding date. He addressed speculation stemming from Ed Sheeran’s comments about receiving an invitation, explaining that it was more of a casual assurance than a formal invite.
The couple, who got engaged in December 2024, are in the early stages of planning their wedding. They have expressed a desire to incorporate elements that reflect their personalities and values. Gomez, known for her close-knit family ties, plans to share a special dance with her grandfather during the reception. She revealed that her grandfather never had the opportunity to walk her mother down the aisle, and she wants to honor him with this meaningful gesture.
In a departure from tradition, the couple has decided to forgo the customary bride and groom first dance. Gomez admitted feeling shy about the spotlight that comes with the first dance, stating, “I don’t think we’re looking at having one of those ’cause they’re a little — I feel embarrassed.” Blanco supported her decision, adding, “She’s shy.”
Embracing Blanco’s Jewish heritage, the couple plans to include the Hora, a traditional Jewish chair dance, in their celebration. Gomez expressed both excitement and nervousness about participating in the energetic dance, humorously noting the trust involved in being lifted on a chair.
Beyond the wedding, Blanco has shared his aspirations for starting a family with Gomez. In an interview with InStyle, he expressed his deep desire to become a father, stating he’s “dreaming and praying every day” about having kids. The couple, who have been together since June 2023, have already taken significant steps in their relationship, including purchasing a $35 million Spanish-style estate in Beverly Hills.
Professionally, Gomez and Blanco have collaborated on a joint album titled I Said I Love You First, released in March 2025. The album, which chronicles their love story, has received critical acclaim and commercial success, debuting at number two on the Billboard 200 chart. Their musical partnership has been praised for its authenticity and emotional depth.
As they continue to plan their wedding, Gomez and Blanco are taking their time to ensure the celebration reflects their unique bond and shared values. By prioritizing meaningful traditions and personal touches, the couple aims to create a memorable and heartfelt experience for themselves and their loved ones.