Khloé Kardashian is getting real about the emotional complexities of becoming a mother through surrogacy. In the premiere of The Kardashians season 3, which aired on May 25, 2023, the reality star shared her personal struggles with Scott Disick, offering a rare glimpse into her journey as a mom of two.
Khloé, 38, who shares a 5-year-old daughter, True, with her ex Tristan Thompson, welcomed a baby boy through surrogacy in 2022. While she has been open about her joy in becoming a mother again, Khloé admitted to facing unique challenges in bonding with her newborn, particularly due to the nature of surrogacy.
Feeling Less Connected: Khloé Reflects on the Surrogacy Experience
During her conversation with Scott, Khloé admitted that the surrogacy process had been more difficult than she anticipated. “It’s a mindf—k. It is really the weirdest thing,” she confessed. “I do feel less connected. People say it takes a minute to feel connected, but Kim said hers was easy. This is not easy.”
Khloé further explained that her experience watching the birth of her son in August 2022 felt emotionally overwhelming. “I definitely buried my head in the sand during that pregnancy, I didn’t digest what was happening. So when I went to the hospital, that was the first time it really registered. It has nothing to do with the baby.”
She expressed feeling a sense of detachment during the process, especially after the birth. “I felt guilty that this woman just had my baby, and I take the baby and go to another room, and you’re separated. It felt like such a transactional experience because it’s not about him,” Khloé explained.
Kim Kardashian Offers Support
Khloé’s sister, Kim Kardashian, who has had her own surrogacy journey with her children Chicago and Psalm, shared her perspective on the emotional aspects of carrying a child. “There is a difference when the baby is in your belly,” Kim explained, acknowledging the deep connection mothers often feel with their unborn children. “It touches your organs. There is no one else on this planet that will feel you from the inside like that.”
Kim’s insight helped validate Khloé’s feelings, emphasizing that people can have different emotional responses to surrogacy. “People can connect in different ways and people can not connect,” Kim added, showing understanding for her sister’s personal experience.
Khloé’s Focus on Family
Despite the challenges she faced with surrogacy, Khloé remains deeply committed to her children. During an appearance on The Jennifer Hudson Show, Khloé gushed about her son’s growth, describing him as a “happy baby” and a “little chunk.” She shared her surprise at how well True has adjusted to being a big sister. “True loves being a big sister. I was worried because I wasn’t pregnant and I didn’t know if it would be hard for her to understand. She’s so maternal and loving,” Khloé said.
Khloé’s focus remains on co-parenting with Tristan, and she has made it clear that there is no romantic involvement between the two at this time. A source revealed that despite their past struggles, Tristan is dedicated to being an active father and is committed to being the best parent he can be. In fact, he recently moved closer to Khloé to stay near their children, showing that his priority is now his role as a father.
Moving Forward
As The Kardashians continues, fans will get an inside look into Khloé’s life as she navigates motherhood, surrogacy, and her ongoing journey of healing. With new episodes released every Thursday, the season offers an honest portrayal of Khloé’s growth as both a mother and a woman finding balance in her personal and family life.
Khloé’s willingness to speak candidly about surrogacy has sparked important conversations about the emotional aspects of the process, showing that while surrogacy may bring new life, it also brings unique challenges. As Khloé continues to work through her emotions and adjust to her new family dynamic, her journey will undoubtedly resonate with many viewers.