Celebrating a Milestone

As Kelly Stafford and her husband, NFL quarterback Matthew Stafford, mark their 10th wedding anniversary on April 4th, she reflects on the realities of married life. The couple, who have faced various challenges together over the years, share their experiences in a recent podcast episode.

The Challenges of Marriage

At 35, Kelly shares her candid thoughts on the complexities of marriage. She emphasizes that “anyone who says otherwise is lying through their teeth,” illustrating the idea that marriage involves overcoming numerous hurdles.

She notes that it often requires “the evolution of communication” with one’s partner. “As long as you fight the right way, conflict can be part of the growth process,” she elaborates.

Lessons from Their Journey

Drawing from their personal journey, Kelly recounts the initial struggles they faced in their first year of marriage. “Nothing has changed in our lives,” she recalls, mentioning how they had already been living together before tying the knot. However, significant adjustments still lay ahead.

Despite the ups and downs, she emphasizes the importance of “constant maintenance” in their relationship. Life’s demands often come first—be it children, family obligations, or seasonal events—and many couples may find themselves prioritizing duties over their partners.

The Importance of Quality Time

In her reflections, Kelly underscores the advice from her sister about carving out time for each other. This does not necessitate extravagant outings but rather the commitment to be present and engaged with one another. “The most successful couples are those who adapt and grow together,” she says, highlighting how mutual support allows partners to evolve without feeling threatened.