Aubrey Anderson-Emmons, the actress who charmed audiences as Lily Tucker-Pritchett on ABC’s Modern Family, publicly came out as bisexual on June 16, 2025, in a lighthearted nod to her iconic role. The 18-year-old shared a video on Instagram, lip-syncing to a memorable scene from the show where her character exclaims, “No, I’m not, I’m gay, I’m gay!” She overlaid the clip with the caption: “people keep joking so much abt me being gay when I literally am (I’m bi),” and added, “happy pride month to all and to all a goodnight hehehe” .
The announcement was met with an outpouring of support from fans and former co-stars alike. Many referenced her on-screen parents, Mitchell and Cameron, portrayed by Jesse Tyler Ferguson and Eric Stonestreet, with comments like, “Mitch and Cam would be so proud!” Others praised the creative way she chose to share her truth, calling it “iconic” and “perfect for Pride Month” .
Anderson-Emmons joined Modern Family in its third season at the age of four, taking over the role of Lily, the adopted daughter of a gay couple. She remained with the show until its conclusion in 2020, appearing in over 160 episodes. Her portrayal contributed to the show’s progressive depiction of a diverse family, earning it multiple accolades, including two GLAAD Media Awards and 22 Emmys .
Since the show’s end, Anderson-Emmons has embarked on a new journey in the music industry under the stage name Frances Anderson. She released her debut single, “Telephones and Traffic,” in May 2025, showcasing her talents as both a vocalist and songwriter. The indie-pop track has been described as “ethereal” and “dreamy” by fans and critics alike . Her follow-up single, “Don’t Forget Me,” is scheduled for release on June 27.
In recent interviews, Anderson-Emmons has opened up about the challenges of growing up in the spotlight. She discussed the pressures of child stardom and the impact of public scrutiny on her self-esteem. After taking a break from acting, she found solace in her high school’s theater program, which reignited her passion for performance .
Her coming out during Pride Month adds a personal dimension to her public persona, aligning with the inclusive values that Modern Family championed throughout its run. As she continues to evolve as an artist and individual, Anderson-Emmons remains a figure of inspiration for many young people navigating their own identities.